Ramblings of a Blonde Brunette

This has been weighing heavy on my mind lately and then yesterday I saw Selena Gomez being completely torn to shreds online….(mostly by women 🤬) over her appearance in a bikini and I was fuming mad. Women are brutal y’all….I’ll just go ahead and say it. I mean men aren’t always kind, let’s face it, but women…..ugh, they can be the worst! A HUGE problem with our world today is everyone is in it for themselves and therefore, never willing to support anyone who they might see as competition. I don’t understand this reasoning…it seems to me that when you team up together, you’re stronger for it. Lord knows I’ve been on the shitty end of that ruthlessness enough times to know that that’s not the kind of person I want to be. I refuse to bring down and hurt other women. I choose to lift them up and support them instead. I feel far better about myself passing out a compliment than I do throwing out an insult. Those who opt to ridicule and throw hateful comments around to make themselves feel better aren’t people I want to associate with. Mean people usually have a reason why they are that way so they see no issue it…..or they just think it’s funny. It’s NOT funny, and if you’ve been on the receiving end, you know that!! Please reach out and help someone you see struggling….whether it’s with their weight (under or over!) or with self confidence or self worth. These things ultimately determine the way a person will spend a great majority of their life feeling and when you don’t feel good about yourself, everything suffers. Again, raising my hand. ✋🏻 I could write a book on the things that have been said to or about me and all the ways that’s affected my life to this day.

As I wrote a couple of weeks ago, your LOOKS do NOT define you, yet that’s the first thing people will judge you for. You have to learn to rise above those comments by having a strong enough belief in yourself to do so. If I can help you with that, please reach out to me. It’s something I’ve struggled with myself for a very very long time. I’m here to help.

Please don’t break someone’s spirit. That’s a hard thing to recover from. If you’re one of those people who are constantly criticizing or body shaming another, please just stop. That doesn’t make you a better person. It just makes you a bully. Set a good example for your kids and for others by choosing to be KIND. The world needs more of that and it’ll earn you far more respect than being a ‘mean girl’ will. There’s no place for people like that in my life and there shouldn’t be in yours either. Now put your head up and walk proud. No one is you and THAT is your power. 👌🏻🙌🏻